Transition

Reverse culture shock, initially entertaining, progressed to annoyance and then faded away, leaving behind assorted quirks and oddities that I am still sorting out. I still bobble my head occasionally to answer affirmative to questions. I still click my tongue in distaste when an unsavory event occurs. I still look at price tags and question the logic of ego-centric mall rats. I may retain a few of those quirks.

Fortunately, I learned more in India than just how to be a weirdo upon return to the States. I also learned the value of strong religious values in a world of turmoil, the way unchanging moral anchors and well placed trust can establish hope of a better future and inspire happier living in the now. Naturally, a mission of bringing souls closer to Christ would involve opportunities to test my own faith, and then build and solidify it as well. The interactions that I had with others accomplished both sides of the faith building: theirs, and mine. My new-found honor for faith, an acquired trait far undervalued in the world's eye, is a blessing in itself.

As I reflect upon the process of this transition from a mission in India to a life in the United States it brings to mind other transitions in my past and the various ways in which I will be required to transition in the future. The process is simple enough, adapt to a new situation, location, responsibility, etc.however, the journeys can be varied. They range from simple to complex, dependent on the circumstances and attitude of those undergoing the change. I wonder how much we attribute easy or quick transitions to our mindset. How often are we the ones turning transitions into search and rescue missions instead of pleasant hikes?

I feel like the first thing people fear in a new situation is the change itself. What do I lose? What will I have to do differently? I am beginning to understand more and more the relationship between progression and sacrifice. The concept seems so abrasive to people! Me? Give something up? The idea that there can be a steady growth in monetary assets and convenience without increased liability is a myth. The ability to quickly cut ties with tradition and familiar practice, when necessary, would be a valuable tool in easy transition.


I miss India. I miss my friends. I miss the food. I miss the service. But there is a life to be lived. Time to get on. How pleasant it is when I can appreciate the past, enjoy the now, and eagerly anticipate the future.